Saturday, April 14, 2012

Life is a choice =)

澳洲一位护士Bronnie Ware的工作和其他临终关怀护士一样:陪病人走完人生的最后3个月。不同的是,她记录病人临终前对生命的回顾,整理后发现大部分的遗憾可以归类为5种。全都是我们都熟悉的道理,但我们往往迷失了。面对生老病死,你会有遗憾吗?


垂死者的5大人生憾事 

第1个遗憾:没有勇气去追求自己的梦想
第2个遗憾:太努力工作,没有陪伴自己的家庭,包括小孩的成长阶段,以及陪伴另一半的时间。
第3个遗憾:后悔自己没有勇气表达内心的情感
第4个遗憾:后悔没和老朋友保持连络
第5个遗憾:后悔自己没有快乐些

REGRETS OF THE DYING
1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn't work so hard.
3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

 "When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

 Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly.
 Choose happiness."- Bronnie Ware-

 原自: http://www.inspirationandchai.com/Regrets-of-the-Dying.html

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